Here wake up call kind of the question. Kind of I think a misunderstanding but she says I have a confession I try to get my ex boyfriend back doing something that I thought would be really sexy. Broke up a few months ago and then I had this idea. I'm gonna get him back she still had a key to his apartment so while he was -- work she went inside. And she got naked. And she got in his bed. He came home was scared he jumped like oh my god he was totally startled he got beat flipped out he screamed -- your -- to quickly grabbed her clothes. Partially get used partially got dressed stumbled into the hallway as where he lives and just and then a little left she said quote in shame she says I'm more defined not migrate my -- but the question she had. Four year Gavin on an answer this too is she's like ice thought. All guys would think this was sexy I thought this was like a fantasy. The girls waiting for you how often was I taught. What parts of breaking in and. And -- and I'm naked woman in your bed part is hot it's hotter when you're actually now yes you don't do when you're in an. You surely do it don't do it after considerable amount time after you've broken up. And that's illegal right really key until legal identify two Israelis have hockey is still. Probably illegal -- -- -- mean we all know has obviously never break out -- you know you're gonna get back together but sometimes you do we know that. That's sometimes you've had those like you are one number what was our intern now impossible when -- parents. She kept to break up the boyfriend and then she's like I'll get back with -- -- knew that wasn't going to be final however in this situation yeah I do you don't wanna do a stunt like this with your acts. We also on the other end. If you're stranger who has it later crush on someone you shouldn't do -- -- -- -- not definitely can't do that yet both are bad now. And I can see soared around none of this is something you shouldn't. But I can see where -- logic was because it does seem like something and I would think was hot is because it is something that a guy would think its top here's the thing out of her -- you don't do it fell at a at a this is right that's the wrong time to do it if you lived together that is when it's hot. Well I. There's the danger. I mean. -- danger he really was for her she could gotten shot here's have been I all I like this song because I'm alone in the. House and what do I care of the cats are judged neither my best friend is certain so she hears me because she's I'd in my bedroom yeah -- -- I get it. Right you're right and every. While Enron and those that -- -- all right I would get very and self conscious and nervous and that probably wouldn't be able to perform it if -- go we'll go away a -- like I am. And I hear from the bedroom or I want gain while insane and rank and she's there really I -- the whole song. Billy what power she base yet it is you know here I'm home -- that your cat yeah. Again -- -- here's the -- here's the -- there's so much they could go wrong in this situation I think this is a lesson for everybody men and women -- a personal guys don't ever get -- -- for a one -- care if -- if that's -- -- -- around if you're married to -- don't wait for our -- no woman wants to find a naked -- even if she loves you waiting for -- but for women -- doesn't go that -- yet to -- -- doing -- ladies if you've ever thought you know men do this. There's -- especially if it's next just imagine. Forget the guy and what if he showed up with another girl Alla. So to -- guys you know hey we know is this something all guys want. Let this huge difference between fantasies in reality in this is a little too real. When it comes to -- Naughty stuff. I don't like to be surprised. You know that I think I -- I think that's kind of all of us. Like we all finally did that thing where I you know like whenever your -- say we did not although I liked him. -- first time. Like try something because you saw it in a movie or Horry played high speed chase yelling I. Shays or like what were talking about -- I like I don't like hot wax or something and it's like surprising because it's like. You know. Like I like the beyond. Heads during during our youth and -- Say you shouldn't surprise him with -- -- how -- like you're saying he should just walk up your wife Wendy in part how lax your actions are expecting just. Don't do that yeah I -- in their trust in that neither you just I just don't think it dead being surprised should ever be part of the act that's that's the best way we can -- on that it's too late for her hopefully we help somebody else here well maybe end and I hope we helped her not do this again when she she you don't go back again that's a stupid. I'm really -- mind. You know I didn't I didn't break in the right -- next time go through the wake up -- and let us seven.