Gonna -- Reagan -- a message sent tourists. And it's a system that such a simple question do you think I should start dating when you're the details. I don't know that it is necessarily as easy as it sounds into everything you wanna say about this one. We have time we think your caller Tim. 76610797661. A seven under you can -- texting your thoughts to 73389. -- wake up call. You think I should start dating. I'm separated from my wife of three years seven separate from -- three years. But I'm still holding out hope that we get back together because a miserable without -- and the other day I looked dinner FaceBook and answer -- Big mistake now -- solid not only is she fine but it looks like she's dating sell you guys think I should start dating I mean if she sees I'm game maybe she'll realize she's about to lose may I guess that's how he feels and maybe by starting she'd see that. And we can actually end up getting back to gather site is -- trying to make her jealous does -- well. I mean yes sounds like and he wants he wants her to see him having good times -- that she doesn't blow away I don't want any other women have. Then I'll now work. You know wall where I actually really start dating works and -- -- shouldn't -- there is definitely start dating. Not. I don't think he's -- to make her jealous but I think he should start dating to get over our current. So that's the best way to just forget about somebody -- have somebody else to distract TO OK if you're. I don't I feel about this but it's a good. I ask you question based off of what you just said. Should he tell old women that he's about the day that he's in this situation so that they don't get their feelings -- So many years they did that will make him unbeatable he had. In a very specific way and here's Helmand duet and tank because women get this all the time. I'm not looking for anything serious I just got out of a marriage -- all other crap about how she's dating other people don't verbally vomit on people. Just say. I'm not -- again I think anything's serious. I just am a man that would be great if he actually got out of his marriage he's still looking to get -- and. You don't tell you go I would think he would do if he wants to get back games should he be beating people no no no no he -- not going to get back in so yes he should not only shouldn't you -- -- when you're not hungry no you don't. I mean I do. You don't like he'd. So readers are they saying you know I'm not hungry all -- -- technical -- -- arrest drunken -- but I'll feel hungry wanna get there is only -- like he's my idol winner none at lunch time and I'm not hungry but I know I gotta eat. I don't wanna get back -- another relationship. But I need to at some point I got to move if you're still thinking so horrible idea -- good. It's started a horrible idea to start dating. If this guy was like you know -- I've realized it's time to move on I wish we can get back together but that's not what she wants I think it's probably time I start dating even if I don't -- -- serious. Tonight just and now but it's like he needs to me he's not ready to move on he's like I think he's. -- and he said I'm still going out. Still holding out hope we'll get back together this is designed to help him move on OC you're trying to help him he's not ready for help get don't get to be -- what is good and steady he comes up with something else and sabotage is all her dates. Oh on her or like he just dedicates his life threatening fining out who she's dating him where she's dating them and that. Mean is that legal and seems like it's like -- -- restraining order put imply okay which will happen and -- eventually a -- and you think they'll -- we have to represent any -- -- a lot we could say and that's it -- -- -- it would only having to beat -- in front of -- you say Canadians -- data coming -- dating just -- even start -- moving -- process Tom -- you say I don't know okay let's bring -- back out -- out on the select. If you can openly you can admit you're not ready to move on the you're hoping you can move back. Don't start dating yet. Don't think he's devices start so I was thinking if I just feel kind of bad for the people he would -- -- approach of. Just tell these women I just got out. Out of both of a long relationship and I'm not looking for any serious -- now words all the time yeah. A lot of lay is bull why not the -- back guy and -- The true is the women will say you because they think they you don't know how much you're gonna love them may think it will take your singing that. But you don't fall for me and then we are gonna get married is that juror I kinda. Expand its true always assumed that if you told led to a woman shoot assumed -- -- Damaged and all you're looking is the Hawkeye arena and -- -- -- -- damaged -- and really yeah but in -- -- when I was single I had guys -- like. -- leaving Syria is not about romance and used again here Monday and he. -- is that would you thought you you thought I'd like. Wise because also insects in them yet. No no I think they're nice guys have -- I know you're not looking to date a little back in time what he's saying is accurate -- the guys is looking really not looking for something serious here yeah it means a he wants sex. I eat and beat. He wants you to know in advance he's not gonna be interest in talking to you afterwards like I assume that women thought like if you say I'm -- -- serious what they're saying TO because it's true most of the time -- Just see you know after we had sex I will have sex and other people tell you. Much more you're OK with that we got to wrap this much. And eating big you have to be -- -- a date other people all. I mean come I don't Mara talked about me. I -- guys should they here's here's the thing and guys got slightly wait until I got out. The day I was like before heist goes over I can't get injured his right. Like the reality is now if a guy says you guys should never say I'm not looking for any serious issue upfront if they wanna sleep the drug to simply say. I love you I love you I want all you for ever let's. Well let's not wait that's the act will not and I don't you -- -- -- all right ice breakers you know. 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